Baby Mama Drama

I know a guy that got a young lady pregnant. By the time to child was born... he was in a new relationship with who would be his future wife. This set his childs mother OFF!!! She was all set to raise hell and make his life miserable. What he did next is almost unheard of. He went down to The Friend of the Court and told them he had just had a child. He said he was in no way going to try to leave this baby high and dry. He then proceeded to turn over his financial records and have child support set up. He then got a lawyer to handle custody and visitation. Needless to say this took the wind out of the mothers sail. She had no trump card. Nothing to threaten with or hold over his head. It was one of the most beautiful things I'd ever seen:-) Being a baby mama is NOT the same as being the woman he loves and wants to be with. Yes... you slept together. Yes... you shared something, but it will never be what you want it to be. He can love and care for his child and never have to be anything beyond nice to you. A lot of women that have children with men expect way too much, which is why it's so much drama surrounding this issue. Ladies... grow up and remember you knew the possible outcome when you laid down and let the nickle fall from between your knees. Men... You also knew what could happen so please take care of your children. It's embarrassing when women act a fool because he doesn't want to be with you. That's life! Deal and move on. But please... stop making scenes in public and calling other women and doing all kinds of foolishness. You're the mother of his baby... nothing more and nothing less. And if that child is taken care of by him... you should have NO problem with anything else.